Hints/Help: “Make EVERY Youth Ministry Night Special”

Tired of the weekly question from your parents and students- “Is there anything special happening this week?” Now you can answer honestly…” EVERY WEEK IS SPECIAL!!” by actually making every week special, unique and fun.

It is really not that hard or expensive.  Below are all REAL “in-the-trenches” Youth Ministry Nights I have done or I am doing!

Here is an example of what a month of weekly “Special Nights” might look like for you!? 

  • 1st Week: Birthday Night: Instead of sending out a card or a comment on social media, throw a 5-minute party for everyone who has a birthday that month.  The cost of a small prize or some cupcakes, along with maybe even a silly birthday video greeting like these: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZWFNu934JB4P6b2gjprWxw/videos
  • 2nd Week: Hilarious Holiday: Find a special or weird holiday happening on our near that day of the month and celebrate it with games, food, prizes, dressing up… Check out my suggestions for this month!  My group is celebrated Valentine’s day this last Sunday.  We are celebrating Pi(e) Day, next month on Sunday, March 14th!
  • 3rd Week: Crazy Dodgeball: Students are obsessed with dodgeball.  I am actually tired of it and also having to play it every week, so I decided years ago to make it a once a month thing and also make it a night to play special crazy versions of dodgeball.
  • 4th Week: Food Night: You might serve food every week, but on this night make it a special or bigger item.  Don’t feel like you have to do a whole meal, unless you want to and can afford it.
    • Some Idea: Hot Dog/S’more Roast, Nacho Bar, Hot Cocoa, Cereal Bar, Cookie Buffet, Ice Cream, and so on
    • If you want to really make it Fun and Crazy consider what we did at my last church and have “TOP THIS  Nights” 
    • Even try the “Silly Smorgasbord” idea below!
  • 5th Week (if you have one): Invite a Parent/Adult Night: Have students invite a parent or a special adult in their life, to come to check out the youth group with them for the night.  We make these special parent nights with a special lesson and even a special game.  Of course, what else, my parents and students love “Parent Vs. Kid Dodgeball”, it is always a huge hit! These nights are great to include other adults from the church, to experience youth group and see for themselves what is really going on!
Here are some other ones I have done over the years:
  • Dress to Impress Nights: Silly, themed dress-up nights- Silly Socks, Twinning, Semi-Formal, Super Hero
  • RanDumb Fun Night: Completely silly Ran-DUMB stuff once a month.  Silly video clips, stage games, challenges, make it a surprise every month!
  • Silly Smorgasbord: A buffet of one particular item in every flavor/style- Oreos, Pop-Tarts,…
  • Snack Attack Potluck: A couple of times a year everyone brings a snack to share, then agrees to leave the unopened leftovers to be used for other nights.
  • Inviting a Friend is a Big Thing: Slight spin on the old invite a friend night, with a BIG sharable candy (1 lb Gummy Bear, 5 lb Hershey Bar….) given away through a drawing at the end of the night to the person who did the inviting to be shared with their friend(s)


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